Life Lessons

I once noticed something curious about my mom when I saw her asking the neighbors for salt, despite the fact that we had plenty at home. When I asked her why, she explained it in a way that left a lasting impression on me. She told me, "Our neighbors don't have much money and often come to us for things. Every now and then, I ask them for something small and inexpensive, so they can feel needed too. This way, when they really need something, it won't be so hard for them to ask us." 

This simple act of asking for something as small as salt was her way of maintaining their dignity, of ensuring they didn't feel embarrassed when the time came to ask for something more significant. It was a quiet yet powerful example of empathy, teaching me the importance of not just giving, but giving in a way that honors the other person's sense of self-worth. It was a subtle, yet profound lesson in how to treat others with respect.

From that moment on, I understood that respecting someone's dignity is one of the most noble feelings a person can have. It's not just about offering help when it's needed but doing so in a way that preserves their pride and independence. This is a lesson I carry with me every day, and it is one of the many invaluable things I learned from my parents.

(Reposted, not my original)